This does not pertain to parenting alone, but is important to share, basically this is information that ceased a bad "mental" habit of mine.
I used to be a "thrower." You know, one of those people who throw things when they get angry. (Instead of resolving hostile feelings in a more logical way). The object of my aim - my better half. I threw the basic things - whatever was within reach - towels, shoes, big glass ashtrays.
One day I was flipping through the channels and a show was on about parents who were in prison for killing their children. One mom's story made me stop "throwing" cold turkey.
It seems that she was in jail for killing her 5-year old son. She, also, was a thrower. In a three second fit of anger, she says, she picked up a curtain rod and chucked it at her son. The curtain rod impaled his temple, killing him.
My thoughts were, wow! She screwed up her life and took that of another in a three second fit of rage. All the sorrow she must feel. She cried and described how she never had any intension of killing him, that was the last thing from her mind. How sad. Her story really made me think. I post this now, because if her experience can stop another "thrower" from becoming a danger - great.
Think of the consequences of your actions.
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